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I am a Jesus Lover, a wife, and a mother. And I'm making the best of what looks like a mess!

2nd Annual Cow Day

Yesterday we participated in Cow Appreciation day at Chic Fil A. You dress up like a cow and you get an entire meal for free. I wasn’t going to dress up this year, but at the very last minute my friend and I decided to pull something together. Z had a cowboy costume that came with chaps and a vest. I wore the chaps as a vest and I tied the tiny vest around my head. I have NEVER looked so ridiculous in my life. Never.
The free food tasted good though and the kids enjoyed it. Z had the same costume last year

only last year I had to tell him “You will wear this outfit and you will have FUN because mommy spent a lot of time planning!”. This year not only was anxious to be a cow, but today he wanted us all to dress up again. SJ’s costume was 3 bucks on clearance at Babies R Us and it will be passed down to future calves for cow days, because as long as Chic Fil A plans on doing this holiday you can count us in!

By |2015-05-14T23:15:46+00:00July 10, 2011|Uncategorized|2 Comments

Roots

This week I have focused on what I call our little urban farm, which really means 3 gardens and 4 chickens in our backyard. We’ve enjoyed it so much and been so eager to learn more that it kind of makes me wonder, how did we get this farming itch? And the answer may go back to the 1940’s in the plains of North Dakota where my father in law grew up.

Earlier this week when we were all together for the 4th of July I asked him if he was raised on a farm. He was hesitant to answer yes and needed clarification. In the sense of commercial farming as a full time income, he was not raised on a farm. They did live off of the land though, which back then was just living, not necessarily farming. They raised their own meat, milked their own cows, and planted their own produce. He shared memories of putting fresh milk in a pillow case tied tight with a stick that would become cottage cheese. He remembers a wood burning stove, a root cellar, and a cantacerous rooster that when finally caught was slaughtered by his mother on the chopping block for Sunday dinner. He remembered that same rooster winking at his mother after being decapitated. She wasn’t able to kill another chicken after that day. Maybe J gets his farming itch from that side of the family.

My mom’s story takes us to a very similar lifestyle half a century ago up on a mountain in Vermont.

My mother was raised on a farm where she recalls growing up with 5 siblings and lots of animals eating whatever was in season. If the corn was ready for harvest then they ate corn until their hair turned yellow, if was beats they ate beats until they were ready to beat each other silly. I too have memories of visiting this farm as a child. One of my favorite activities was swinging from a rope tied to the rafters of the barn and plummeting down onto a thick pile of hay. I also remember sitting down for dinner having my uncle talk fondly of the pig we were about to partake. They were so comfortable with the whole farming process they would even refer to the animal by name as we ate her. I still have family up on that mountain and it is one the most beautiful places I have ever been. I look forward to the day I can bring my kids up there to share the experience with me.
In the mean time I do get to visit the country fairly often when I go up to J’s parent’s house.

They have a lot of land with dogs, cats, cows, and horses. This was the same field we renewed our vows on last year.

I love these photos of our rings positioned on my father in laws old tractor equipment.

Hearing stories from our history makes me feel like I am finding missing pieces of myself. Maybe that’s why we are into this farming thing right now. It’s in our roots.
By |2015-05-14T23:15:46+00:00July 9, 2011|Uncategorized|2 Comments

What’s Been Growing

It all began with a trip to the Library. J got a book called The Family Kitchen Garden and was inspired to plant the garden that he had already dreamt up in his mind. We all planted the seeds together and I had no idea how much I would love the entire experience. It’s like opening a present on Christmas morning when you find a new blossom, bud, or food growing. The cilantro was the first to come up and was ready to harvest within about 3 weeks.

One by one more things starting ripening and in less than 3 months we have been able to enjoy fresh Cilantro Green beans Cucumbers (two different types) Tomatoes Bibb lettuce Red Leaf Lettuce Swiss Chard (My first time trying it. So delicious when cooked up with some oil and garlic)Thyme Dill Green Onions (this was more like an onion fail, but we’re not giving up) BasilMint The only thing that we planted that never produced was peas. We just recently planted a third garden and still have some of the original crop that is on the brink of ripening so we hopefully have all this to look forward toWatermelon Honeydew melon Bell Peppers Pablano peppers Cherry Tomatoes There are so many other thing we want to try and as newbie gardeners we always welcome advice and recommendations. What’s in your garden?

By |2015-05-14T23:15:46+00:00July 7, 2011|Uncategorized|1 Comment

Digging Learning

I don’t know if you’d call it an addiction, a phase, a hobby, or a lifestyle. All I know is that so far I am really digging this whole organic farming thing, and by organic I don’t mean that in the certified, trendy, city sense of the word, I just mean natural and wholesome. There is still so much that J and I want to try and have yet to learn.

First of all I would love to do some canning. With fresh produce you get so much at once it makes sense to have some of it stored up to last throughout the year. We have canned fig jam and tried our hand at pickling, but I am still a novice and if we want to get serious we are going to need a water bath or pressure canner. Anyone know anything about these? Next we are learning more about seeds and plants in general. It’s all very complicated, but it’s also fascinating and I feel like every little detail shows me a glimpse of our creator. I would love to learn more about the seeds, the process, and the life cycles of what we plant. I am currently working on drying some coriander which is the flower/seed that comes at the end of the season for cilantro. You can use it to cook or plant and I am just learning about all of this for the first time! Lastly, composting has definitely peaked our interest, but we haven’t even begun to explore all that this process has to offer unless throwing a couple tomatoes and a deformed watermelon, into a pile counts. I am sure if our neighbors knew about it they would probably have a conniption fit. Hopefully we’ll figure out what we are doing with all of this when we come back from our vacation. Anyone else try composting or know of any good resources? So that’s where we are at in this little gardening adventure. Not sure what to expect, but definitely enjoying the season we are in.

If you have any blog posts on gardening, canning, composting etc. post the links in the comments section. I’d love to read all about it!
By |2015-05-14T23:15:46+00:00July 6, 2011|Uncategorized|2 Comments

Farm Talk

In April I said we were making some “bold but exciting changes as a family” and this has included basically starting up our own tiny urban farm. It all kind of happened suddenly, and my life has changed in ways I would have never predicted. For those of you that were a part of the FFA in school I probably sound as pathetic as Paris Hilton on the simple life, but I can assure you it is not that bad! For example I know #4 is obvious, but you don’t realize how wonderful the rain is until you have plants, and we are currently in drought like conditions. And as for #5 I have never actually said “OMG”, but you get the idea. Anyway, the list; Here are ten things I would have NEVER said before this year.
  1. If you do not stop chasing the chickens we are going back inside!
    2. Alright, I want you kids to behave yourself while we are at the tractor supply store okay?
    3. I think we needed more dill for that brine, the pickles are a bit vinegary.
    4. I love the rain. It’s like free water.
    5. OMG! Is that the spring 2011 catalogue… of Irish eyes garden seeds.

    6. Dinner will be ready in a minute, I just need to go out back and pick some tomatoes and cilantro really quick.
    7. Would you mind helping me paint the chicks toenails?

    8. This salad would have probably cost 5 bucks if we hadn’t grown it ourselves, no make that $15 because it’s local and organic!

  1. “Do you have the thyme?” “Let’s make a dill.” And other herbal jokes I torment my family with.
  1. All I need is a milking goat and I will be I’ll be set.
Somebody stop me if you find me saying “Time to get up farmer J. The rooster is crowing and I have high hopes that Bessie may be birthin’ that calf before sundown “
For more top ten check out Oh Amanda and if you know anything about gardening, canning, or farming come by tomorrow because I just might need your help!
By |2015-05-14T23:15:46+00:00July 5, 2011|Uncategorized|6 Comments

American Soil

I have been anxiously waiting to share what has been happening in our garden over the past 3 months and I thought this week would be the perfect time to do it. Nothing says America like fresh home grown vegetables (or fast food burger and fries, but that’s another story).

Today we are going to the traditional 4th of July gathering with J’s family and I volunteered to bring burger toppings, most of which will be from the garden. Then I realized I had some herbs that are ready to go and need to be used up before we leave town in a week.

So I found a recipe that uses cucumbers, mint, and scallions (all of which we grow), and bruschetta which will put some of our tomatoes and basil to good use.

I’ll be back later this week to tell more about what we are doing with our little piece of American soil, but for now I’m off to see some fireworks.

Happy 4th of July everybody!
By |2015-05-14T23:15:46+00:00July 4, 2011|Uncategorized|2 Comments

Alone Time

The other day SJ got a hold of a razor, but it didn’t have the razor on it, just the handle, so I watched her pretend to shave her legs. It’s pretty funny to see a 14 month old mock shave, but it’s also sad. It’s sad because the reason she knows how is because she’s seen me do it many times, because I don’t even have one stinkin’ moment to myself, not even a naked one. By the time my birthday came along I was ready for some much needed alone time.
It was about 17 years ago that my mom was inching her way towards an empty nest and was wanting a break. She had plans to drive to Atlanta (to pick me up) and decided to take off a day earlier than originally expected, but what my dad didn’t know was that she decided to stop along the way take in a movie and stay at a hotel for the night. She didn’t think anyone would be effected by it or care because they weren’t expecting her in Atlanta for another day, and remember this was before cell phones so it wasn’t as easy to touch base back then. The next day my dad made attempts to find out if she had arrived safely and when no one knew of her whereabouts panic struck. We all thought something horrible must have happened. The police were notified and sent out an APB alert in 3 different states. There was a prayer vigil going on at our house and everyone was worried sick. In the mean time my mom was enjoying some R&R and taking her sweet time before she finally made it to Atlanta and found out that she had been missing for 24 hours!
I enjoyed almost 24 hours to myself on Monday. I reveled in the coffee for one, the shopping, the unfamiliar sense of peace and quiet. J even stopped by the house and “caught” me reading my Bible out in the backyard.

He didn’t even interrupt me, I found out about it from my friends who thought it was cute, but they just don’t realize how difficult it is to get alone with the B-I-B-L-E around here.

I wanted to say thanks for sticking around this week just so I could go on and on about my birthday. I felt a little juvenile making such a hoopla, but you all assured me that I have every right to have a special day to myself. So thank you for the encouragement and I would like to encourage you to do the same whether it’s your birthday or not. We all need take some time to rest, to be refreshed, to celebrate, to partake, but on a side note you may want to inform people of your plans in order to avoid police involvement.
By |2015-05-14T23:15:46+00:00July 2, 2011|Uncategorized|2 Comments

What a Girl Wants

The book I bought on Monday teaches about communication between men and women. It is described as the language of blue and pink and how so many marriages get lost in translation. I am not surprised by this at all. I don’t know how I expect J to know what I want when a lot of times I don’t even know myself.

For example, the first thing J told me when he woke up on mother’s day was that he didn’t get a card. I said “It’s okay. I don’t care about cards. Mother’s day really isn’t a big deal for me.” By the end of the day I was exhausted from playing outside with the kids who had gone inside and tracked mud all through the house and this was after a long list of other things that were a far cry from Kodak moments. J was playing guitar for a Sunday night worship service and I was at home on my hands and knees scrubbing mud off the floor realizing that I DO care about mother’s day!
I wanted to avoid a repeat of this for my birthday so SEVERAL weeks before the date I sent him an email titled “Birthday Wishes” and it stated exactly what I wanted including that I don’t want to go shopping for my birthday, and an amazon wish list for gift ideas. The reason I was so specific was because in years past when he says how about we go shopping and you can pick out something for your birthday” I hear “I forgot about your birthday and don’t feel like doing anything for you, but here is some money.”
He ignored my wish list and got me a purse because he knew I needed a new one and he knew I couldn’t find exactly what I was looking for. Ironically, I did find what I was looking for at a thrift store (on the right of the photo below) the same day he found this Fossil bag for me (shown on left)! I told him he obviously did a great job because we both bought almost identical bags and his bag was actually a lot nicer.
I suggested that since I couldn’t take my purse back I would return his and then go shopping with the money. He was shocked since that is the exact opposite of what I said I had wanted. This is true, but really what I wanted was to know that he put forth some effort in finding something special for me, which he did. So now I have a new purse and a bunch of other stuff. Happy birthday to me.

By |2015-05-14T23:15:46+00:00June 30, 2011|Uncategorized|5 Comments

Birthday Songs

Yesterday I posted that I would try and get a video of my birthday serenade up in “10 minutes” and it never happened. I don’t understand why I had such difficulty. I uploaded it to facebook without any problems but, since I know several of you are not connected with me through facebook here is the video as promised.

The first part is of my little Z monster who voluntarily began the day with this song. The part after that was the tale end of the birthday serenade I got from the guy that did my pedicure (I really wish I would have gotten my phone out to record sooner), and lastly is a friend of mine who surprised me with an Italian opera song. The three spontaneous songs were about as diverse as they come, but all three certainly brightened my day.
By |2015-05-14T23:15:46+00:00June 30, 2011|Uncategorized|2 Comments

Birthday Bounty

Yesterday was my day to be spoiled, to feel pampered, to indulge in the simple little things I never have time for. Yesterday was my birthday. Along with a few birthday gifts from friends I went on a little shopping spree all by myself. If you have ever been a mother of preschoolers you know that the gift of solitude is priceless. And because you know I love participating in Oh Amanda’s top 10, here are the 10 things I got for my b-day.
1. Car Wash- I’m not even talking about a nice professional detail, I just mean driving through the thing at Exxon. I never get my car washed and it was something I wanted to do since rain certainly isn’t holding me back!
2. A new dress- This entire outfit head to toe was purchased on my birthday and I wore it out last night.

3. Accessories- I finally got some new jewelry. As I mentioned before, I am in desperate need of accessories so this was probably the coolest gift of all.
4. Nice tweezers- Sounds so simple, but I have only ever purchased cheap tweezers and when I used my moms which are nicer it made a huge difference. I finally upgraded and I am glad I did!
5. Love & Respect- Who doesn’t want love & Respect for their birthday? Just kidding, I have wanted this book about Christian marriage for a long time and I found a brand new copy at half price books. Score.
6. Eisley CD- I have wanted They Valley ever since going to the Eisley concert a few weeks ago. I am taking in the ear candy even as I write this.
7. A pedicure- I haven’t had one of these since I was pregnant with SJ (a year and a half ago). This gift was from the same friend that treated me the last time. What a friend!

8. Birthday songs- My little monster sang happy birthday to me which is the best gift of all, then MP, who was the best man in our wedding and just so happens to be an Opera singer, gave me a birthday card that came with a singing telegram. Lastly, my male nail technician insisted on singing to me at the salon. I’ve never had such a serenade.*
Hopefully I will have a video of this when it’s done uploading in about 10 minutes*
9. Cake pops- I am in love with the Tiramisu cake pops from Starbucks. They also have a birthday cake flavor which I had never tried so I thought yesterday was the perfect opportunity. In lieu of a birthday cake I had a tasty cake pop out on a patio in Deep Ellum listening to live Jazz music. What a way to end the day.

10. Number 10 is a work in progress. I looked everywhere for some Keen socks. I know where to get them, but I was hoping I wouldn’t have to drive that far. If I get these socks then that completes the entire Amazon wish list I had concocted a month ago.
This very happy birthday makes for one happy refreshed mama (a 29 year old one).

By |2015-05-14T23:15:46+00:00June 28, 2011|Uncategorized|3 Comments
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