Z’s Language

1. Nuffin= A breakfast pastry

1. Nuffin= A breakfast pastry
I still don’t have a long term solution to this whole computer fiasco and it’s got me on edge. I know it might sound like I’m being overly dramatic about the whole thing, but I do have a job and I can not do it without a working computer. After doing some online shopping I’ve had to face the harsh reality that it is going to cost a pretty penny for me to replace what I have now, even with the apple discount my dad gets for being a nerd, uh, I mean infrastructure engineer. My plan is to sell some things on ebay. I am sure I can get something for the hunk of junk laptops that we’ve got right now, and I do have an extra canon SLR that I’ve been meaning to get rid of. And if all that doesn’t add up I will probably have to resort to selling some organs on the black market, but we’ll see.
Feeding ducks as a family and enjoying a beautiful day is one of my finer things. That’s why I am linking up with Finer Things Friday over at Amy’s Finer Things. Check it out.
It seems like every other week I have some piece of modern technology failing me. Recently it’s been my digital camera, then my cell phone, and this week it appears to be my laptop AGAIN. I can’t complain. This laptop has been with me even longer than my children.
My little boy learned to type his name on the computer. A practice which sort of back fired on me when he started telling people his name was “Z I O N space bar L E E”.
All 8 of the members of my family (my parents, brothers, and sister in laws) own Macbooks.
Even baby SJ came to love this titanium member of our clan.
The problem began on Monday afternoon when my charger started smoking. I panicked and J tried to perform an immediate emergency operation with a solder gun (because he is an IT super hero). In the mean time the battery on my laptop was running out.
40%…35%
Come to find out, it wasn’t the charger, it was the actual computer itself and by this time I am down 15% left of my battery power.
“Do you have everything backed up” J says as he peers at the screen trying everything he can to save the poor creature.
“I think so”, but as the words come out I start doubting myself and I begin to sweat.
“Go get your external hard drive!” he shouts.
My heart is pounding as I imagine the thought of loosing everything. I try very hard to make double back ups of all my photos, but there is so much more than that. I start rattling off files to put on the hard drive.
“MY CALENDAR, DOCUMENTS, STICKIES, I DON’T KNOW! I NEED IT ALL! I CAN’T LOOSE THIS COMPUTER.” in the meantime the power is quickly fading like the last grains of sand slipping through an hour glass.
10%… 5%
My mind raced to think of every last item and I remember some recent photos of the kids feeding the ducks and I jumped in front of J to locate the folder myself and transfer it to the hard drive.
“I don’t think it’s going to make it”. J said as we watched the race between the folder that was being transferred and the tiny percent of battery power left on the machine, within seconds everything went black. My heart sank.
Reluctantly J took the charger off of his new laptop. He was hesitant because he had seen what my laptop had done to the other charger, but as he plugged it in, the life came back onto the screen. It wasn’t a permanent solution, but at least there was a glimmer of hope. It’s too soon to really tell the fate of my beloved 17 inch. I am currently using J’s old computer to type this blog, so we’ll just have to wait and see what happens with all of this.
Am I the only one who has such a tight relationship with my computer? Is there anyone else in danger of passing out if your laptop crashes?
1. The Cupcake Inspiration
The theme came from the pink cupcakes that I made a year and a half ago when I announced that I was having a girl.
2. The 70 beautiful cupcakes
I am convinced that I have some of the most talented friends in the world, they made the assortment of cupcakes which varieties included strawberry, chocolate, cinnamon and more!
3. The BIG Cupcake
I purchased the cupcake mold a long time ago when I got the idea for the party. This cupcake is the same size as a 13×9 sheet cake. It has sugar cookies on the outside and tie dye batter on the inside.
It was a party of it’s own.
4. The Goodie Bags
What happens when you have a party with enough sweets to feed the entire city? Leftovers. I provided little to go bags, and encouraged people to take goodies and a one year photo home with them.
5. The Memory Books
On the same table as the goodie bags were some pictures, photo albums, and SJ’s baby book for guests to thumb through that afternoon.
6. Valentines Stuff
The best part about an early March birthday party for a girl is all the pink stuff on CLEARANCE after valentine’s day. The cupcake tower, decorative, hearts, candy, and goodie bags were all at least 75% off.
7. Decorations
I started talking about this fun stuff from Party Express months ago.
8. The Gift Table
I decorated the gift table with a valentine clearance table cloth, the #1 photo prop that I used for her pictures, and our gift to her which was “If You Give A Cat A Cupcake”.
9. Wardrobe Changes
Yes this little diva had 3 wardrobe changes (although in all fairness we did this with our son too). The birthday dress that her photos were taken in.
Followed by the black and white over coat and cupcake bib for the eating portion of the party
Then this adorable ensemble with a customized cupcake onesie, tutu and big girlie bow made by my friend Crystal.
10. The People and Guest of Honor of Course
There were so many fun details that day I could literally do a scrapbook designated just to her birthday party, but take away all the sugar, pink, and helium and we would have still had one of the best days ever because of the people that were there and who it was all about.
This list is a part of Oh Amanda’s Top Ten Tuesday. Six more months before my little guys birthday. Yes I am already planning.
I know when I get started on something my friends and readers never get to hear the end of it. I can’t help myself. Whether it’s the cereal party I had in high school or the “2nd wedding” I had for our 10th anniversary, I love event planning. Last year I wrote a post called the unparty where I explained that I will only throw big parties for my kids about every other year. I think the reason I set these limits for us is because I know I can’t hold myself back, I have to go all out. I love to party. Not Charlie Sheen party, but you know, sprinkles and balloons birthday kind of party.
SJ’s first birthday went above and beyond my expectations. It was incredible! I will post more details for top 10 Tuesday, but let me just say I personally was blown away. I was worried about her being overwhelmed and clingy, but she loved every minute of it and was the happiest I have ever seen her! Her brother Z did great too here he is helping blow out the candle.
She has never had cookies, chocolate, cake or anything like that so the cake eating was the highlight of the party as everyone anticipated how she would react to her first taste of sweets. She loved the chocolate. Would you expect anything else from my offspring!?
Contrary to what I expected she was very interested in her presents and was attentive the whole time.
I know a lot of people probably think it was stressful. It wasn’t at all and I know it looks like it cost a small fortune, but it didn’t. It was all done very economically and many people that love SJ very much pulled together to make it happen. I know she won’t remember this party, but I will. I will cherish it forever.
It’s 180 diapers, which for a cloth diapering mom should last a REALLY LONG TIME. This was the first time I have spent any money on diapers for her. I received about 7 packages of disposables when she was born. At first I only used about one or two disposable diapers a week, now that she is a more heavy wetter and eating solids we are at about a diaper a day (some days I use a few if we are out all day, other days I don’t use any). The best part is that I got this whole box of diapers for $9.00. I heard about a really great deal on amazon from passionate penny pincher and I used a $10.00 coupon along with swag bucks to make it a steal!“I use Luvs disposable. By the time you spend time and $ on water and soap, I think the cost comes out about the same. I’d rather be spending all my moments I can with my children – not leaning over a toilet swishing poopies…”
This post will be linked to other money saving ideas at LIFE AS MOM.
Little did I know the arrival was 2 days away! Now here I am pulling together the final details of her first birthday party. I managed to get some one year photos on Sunday and SJ was all energy!


I finished up reading Grace Based Parenting by Dr. Tim Kimmel just in time to drop it off at the library on the due date. I learned a lot from this book as a parent and as a Christian. Grace based parenting is basically the opposite of fear based parenting. This could be operating out of fear for your children, or causing your children to react out of fear of you. This summary from page 213 really puts it all into perspective.
“Grace-based parenting is not a checklist for parenting; it’s a lifestyle. It’s a clear attempt to retrofit your minds to respond to your children in the same way God responds to you;. Being different, vulnerable, and candid isn’t something you do as a grace based family; it’s something you are. “
More than anything reading Grace Based parenting got my wheels turning even if it wasn’t principals straight out of the book. First of all the number one best thing I can do for my kids is be an example. I won’t be perfect and I will have to admit that and even ask forgiveness (which I have had plenty opportunities for already). But there is no way I can teach them and want them to succeed in a way that I am not holding true to in my own life.
Second my goal is not to raise good kids. My goal is to teach and equip my children for the real world as adults. I had a dog that I trained to do tricks, perform on command, and obey certain cues, but my children are not dogs. It’s tempting sometimes to want them to do what I say because they know better and to look like upstanding citizen out in public, but if it’s all just a bag of tricks then it amounts to nothing. Some people are completely against any kind of bribes, but lets face it there is usually a reward when it comes to performance. Some people are against warnings. My thoughts are that you can give too many warnings, but in reality if I was an adult that never got any warnings or second chances I would have failed at a lot of the things that I have been able to accomplish. With every discipline, praise, or instruction I am trying to lead with the big picture in mind.
I am a 3 year old when it comes to motherhood because that’s the age of my oldest son, and I am totally aware of that. I am sure I will look back and see how ignorant I was, but by the grace of God I can raise up children to love, serve, and live out the amazing plans that the Lord has for them.