I got free tickets to see I Love Lucy live at the Aranoff theater in Cincinnati and it was such a great experience. I used to watch reruns of the show back in the day. Watching it as an adult made me realize just how much my husband and I are just like Lucy and Ricky! I am the quirky free spirited one always trying new things and getting myself into some kind of trouble, while J is a little more grounded and inclined to
overthink think things through.
It’s a great combination though and it’s not uncommon for opposites to attract. There is often chemistry there. Even in fictional love stories there are numerous times where Type A personality + Type B personality = True Love. I’m no movie or television buff, but I did my best to come up with a list of characters that have that “I Love Lucy” chemistry. Maybe you can help me add to it.
1. Lucy and Ricky Ricardo (I Love Lucy)
I already ‘splained myself on this one. Quirky meets grounded and BAM! Match made in heaven.
2. Elizabeth Bennet and Mr. Darcy (Pride and Prejudice)
It’s not unlikely for this personality combination to start as a love/hate relationship, as was the case with Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy. Darcy is about as straight laced as they come seeing everything in black and white. Elizabeth on he other hand was raised with an entirely different set of values and has “a lively, playful disposition, which delighted in anything ridiculous” (to quote Jane Austen). Yet, it works. Sounds like another Lucy and Ricky to me.
3. Maria and Captain von Trapp (Sound of Music)
Um, can we say opposite? Another classic example of how a serious military guy can fall for a singing dancing “flibbertijibbet! A will-o’-the wisp! A clown!” such as Maria. Once again, it took a while for them to realize their love, but it doesn’t get any more perfect than the captain and Maria.
4. Fran Fine and Mr. Sheffield (The Nanny)
If you are looking for the 1990’s modern adaptation of all of these love stories than look no further than the hit sitcom “The Nanny”. A wealthy widower who is reserved and proper ends up with a flashy, sassy, hot mess from Flushing Queens when Fran becomes the nanny of Mr. Sheffield’s three children. Of course it takes 5 of 6 seasons for them to admit their feelings, but they do end up happily ever after.
5. Cory and Topanga (Boy Meets World)
Another 90’s sitcom (sorry that’s my era). First of all how cool is it that we watched this connection start as children and now there is a spin off series where they are still married and have children!? Even though Cory and Topanga definitely mellow out a little making it less obvious how opposites attract. But let’s not forget that Topanga was a total hippy when she met the nerdy little Cory Matthews. Cory describes his love for Toganga by saying
“She gave me my first kiss. She taught me how to dance. She was always talking about these crazy things and I never understood a word she said. All I understood was that she was the girl I sat up every night thinking about.”
So that’s why I say Cory and Topanga fit the bill for straight laced guy and free spirited gal.
7. Joe and Anya (Roman Holiday)
Even though this classic black and white Audry Hepburn film doesn’t really end up as a love story I think it still shows that same pattern. A dedicated reporter tries to stay focused on business while the care free spontaneous princess just wants to chop off her hair, hop on a motorcycle, and live life to the fullest! At first Joe just wanted to get the story for his career, but in the end love, loyalty, and passion win him over.
8. Emmett and Wyldstyle (Lego Movie)
You can laugh if you want, but are Emmett and Wyldstyle from the Lego movie not the perfect example of the rule following guy totally falling for the independent artsy chick? I’ll admit Wyldstyle is way more serious than the playful free wheeling girls I have listed above, but she definitely likes to march to the beat of her own drum and eventually Emmett does too! Not to mention Wyld Style’s real name is LUCY. It’s like this I love Lucy comparison has gone full circle!
9. Ross and Rachel (Friends)
Ross Geller was the focused and introverted paleontologist while Rachel Green was a bit of a loose cannon who had many different jobs throughout the show. They were the unlikely nerd and cheerleader opposite combo that finally settled down together in the end. For that reason I would say this ultimate sitcom couple had a little “I Love Lucy” chemistry going on.
10. Belle and The Beast (Beauty and the Beast)
I know this is a stretch, but just think about it. Belle is that same dreamer, non conformist, make your own path leading lady and while we don’t know a ton about the Beast it’s safe to say he had that type A personality that would make them an opposite couple. I am sure you know the story so I won’t go into detail, but once again true love wins in the end!
So those are my picks for fictional couples with “I Love Lucy” chemistry. Although, I should mention it doesn’t have to be the male that has the A type personality.
There is Danny and Sandy from Greece, or Allie and Noah from the Notebook (he was the one to bring her out of her shell), or even though I do realize they were cartoon dogs Lady and the Tramp is another prime example. I should stop before I come up with another list of ten. Feel free to add your own. I am sure there are lots more.
Are you an I Love Lucy Couple?
Opposites do attract indeed! Jack and Kate from Lost are pretty opposite. You can even see it in friendships like the Fox and the Hound and the Odd Couple.
Oh I think it definitely applies to friendships. I am an extrovert and when I look back at all of my closest friendships since childhood it’s mostly all introverts. Also, yes to Jack and Kate!
I love this! My husband and I aren’t quite this opposite but I’d definitely say we have out things that the other one just doesn’t get. It’s what keeps the mystery in marriage. 🙂
I wouldn’t compare my hubs and I as Lucy and Desi – but we are definitely OPPOSITES. Now, I am going to ponder on who we are more like (famous people that is). Stay tuned – I’ll find someone!!! xo Cute post. Fun. LIKE YOU!
I LOVE to watch I Love lucy! What a fun post! 🙂
Such a fun post. As a therapist, I often like to think about the relationship dynamics that are portrayed on television, movies and books and the messages that can be learned from these relationships.
Love Ross and Rachel!!! The best couple ever!
Love that you have Beauty and the Beast on here! I think the couple I relate to the most is Marshall and Lily on How I Met Your Mother. They complement each other so well, and my boyfriend and I are similarly goofy, so we always love watching them.
What a fun post, I love it! I don’t know which couple Jeff and I most are like. I think when we first met we were different but our core values and ideals were similar. I think perhaps that’s why 19 years later we are still going strong!
Such a fun list! And Ross and Rachel–totally! But my fave is totally Corg and Topanga!! And I love that now there is a spinoff. Jesse Spano and AC Slater I think could totally be added to your list too!
Toni Basil sang the Oh, Mickey song, Wierd Al sang a version Oh Richie. It started with Luuucy I’m home. My middle name is Lucy. so when my husband Richard would come home He’d start ” Lucy I’m home.” I’d follow this ” Oh Rickie you’re so fine You’re so fine you blow my mind”. I guess we are Rickie and Lucy!
I feel like Chris & I have a lot of opposite characteristics, but we have a lot of similar ones, too. Most people who meet us separately are surprised when they find out we are together, but I think that’s more outward appearance than anything. When I asked Chris if he’d say we’re opposites just now, he snorted…then he said that we’re opposites in some things. Ha!
yup! My husband is from Mexico. introvert, private, calm, very patient man, ( and I am sure glad for that patience!) me? Hot blooded Irish/ German, emotional, extrovert/introvert depending on situation. We are a great team, and work very well together. I am glad I have him as my help mate, and hopefully we give Glory to God through our Love and relationship.
Major thanks for the post. Fantastic.
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